I'm OUT in Kansas

Real Stories Shared by Real People in Their Own Words

I'm OUT in Kansas, Kai's Story

February 2025

For much of my life, I felt isolated and alone, grappling with challenges that seemed unique to me—persistent pain, dizziness, and overwhelming emotions. Growing up in a sheltered religious household, I didn’t know LGBTQ+ people existed. I believed my only option was to conform to societal expectations and become someone’s wife, despite it not feeling right.

Puberty was a turning point.

I'm OUT in Wichita, Jessie's Story

January 2025

Jessie Lawson, a proud transwoman, shares her remarkable story of resilience and self-discovery. From overcoming rejection and self-hatred to embracing her true identity through therapy and transition, Jessie’s journey is a testament to the transformative power of hope. Dive into her path from rock bottom to a life filled with joy and affirmation, and her message to all: “You are loved. Seek help.” Read more about Jessie’s inspiring journey in our latest feature.

I'm OUT in Wichita, Jennifer's Story

December 2024

My original coming-out story was in 1996 when I did an interview for the Liberty Press. When I was asked, I was hesitant to do the interview and didn’t see the importance since my partner, Colleen (aka Coke), and I were well-known in the community and we were already out to our family and friends.

I'm OUT in Wichita, John's Story

November 2024

At 2:30 a.m., while most people are fast asleep, I find myself awake, reflecting on my life’s journey—a story filled with challenges, self-discovery, and ultimately, hope. I’ve decided to share my story with the hope that it might inspire others who face similar struggles.


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I'm OUT in Wichita, Michaela's Story

October 2024

My name is Michaela, some of my closer friends call me “Mac.” I was born in and raised in Wichita, KS starting on August 11, 1994. Growing up within my family, it was a bit chaotic. My parents were teenagers when they had me. I am the oldest, with two younger siblings. My family system was filled with arguments, yelling, and domestic violence. The family I came from was complex, but there was no religious or political affiliation that I was raised in". Michaela


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I'm OUT in Wichita, Laekin's Story

September 2024

"The first time I started noticing I felt different than the people around me was throughout elementary school. I wouldn’t necessarily “hate” wearing dresses, but I would never prefer it. I used to sit with the boys at lunch and have milk-chugging contests and even fake burped to join in on the fun. I had two best friends who were girls and whenever we would play “house”, I HAD to be the boy, any boy character. " Laekin